Love, Pain and Happiness

12:45 AM
15 DEC. 2008



As i just thought to write this blog, a plethora of thought contrasting my own views ,began to sweep my mind. So, I am pretty messed up and don’t know from where to start it. Love is the most beautiful word in English literature, happiness is something we all strive for(and live for) and pain is the brutal reality of life. Still all three of them are highly inter-related. U can't be happy without being in love and love demands lot of pain and sufferings.

As Benjamin Disreli has quoted "We are all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end."I truly agree with it. U can't imagine a universe without LOVE,we are here just because we love our life and people. Sometimes, negative thoughts have that impact on us that we begin to hate everything around us,everyone seems to be disloyal,we start losing faith on others,GOD and even on ourself.This is the time when a silent pat of someone on shoulders ,tender affection of some beloved and chariness of elder-ones comes in to rescue. These all acts of love help in restoring a man , it makes him stable and gives him the courage to stand and face the world. Love has got many dimensions .It could come from anywhere and from anyone, it is just that feeling of being important to someone. But, we,Humans have restricted it to limited relations .We no longer care for loving mankind. As Mother Teresa points out" if u judge people, u wont have time to love them". We are really so much screwed that we don’t want to believe on someone until he really makes a real impact inside us and leave alone the case of loving him. But, this is a pragmatic approach and i don’t say it wrong either. Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give -- which is everything.

If you are a true lover, u are bound to face many hurdles because the course of true love never runs smooth. Love and pain are two faces of same coin. The true meaning of love can be felt by someone who has really felt the maximum pain. It has been said that all the great lovers have been losers. It has a great meaning attached to it. Hundreds of them leave everything in their way to achieve what they love and its quite common to see that they haven't been able to acheive that.The value of water is worth the most to one who is thirsty in desert for an entire day. So, pain is an integral part of love. Even nature supports this fact; u can't have a rose without a throne, a lotus without mud. So, if u want to love someone or something, be prepared to pay the price for that.

Now, comes happiness. Everyone in this world wants to be happy and he is persuading his happiness. Happiness to me means the feeling of being recognized and cared. And this feeling can't come if u are not in love.U are happy because ur loved ones are happy.You need to love everything that comes ur way.It gives u positive energy and fills the ambience with aroma of happiness..

Love is the greatest refreshment in life.The heart that loves is always young. So, lets come forward and love everyone in this world.Feel the pain associated with it and then only we can be happy.This is love,pain and happiness according to me.

Finally Its Over......

11 DEC 2008
7:36 PM


For we IT students of penultimate semester,this day will be remembered because today our longest examination sojourn has ended..Normally,our earlier end sems used to be over within 7/8 days,but this time it was extended to 16 long days..Well! taking an examination has never been a bad experience(barring few occasions like M3),infact we consider it as a festival season,but this time i was trully frustrated with the way examinations proceeded...Ofcourse! I enjoyed a lot with three long PLs in between, but,each time I had to start from the beginning .I had to recollect the courage to go through that deadly xerox,books and notes(if any)and make myself mentally ready to have atleast a C in each paper.The momentum was seen nowhere,neither paper nor pen was ready to respond .But, thanks to my friends and above all jainendra(gandhi), my saviour,I was atleast in a position to reach the doors each scheduled day.The situation was that I had my mind frequently asking me that whether I shud take this exam?..It has been an immense feeling today when finally BIO_INFO. paper was over.Atleast, now I neednot visit that room no 219 which I had started to hate the most.This new examination controller seems to be totally out of his mind,as he has completely failed to schedule the subjects in proper dates..Nyways,Its over now 4 me atleast,but ya my CSE friends have to face one more obstacle.infact,they will be taking OT paper for the 4th time in the same semester tommorow.Lets see what is in store for us in the last sem.Don't be surprised to see a month duration exam in may..well! that will be one more reason to spend some extraordinary days in this paradise..

Introduction........

 11.40 pm

3rd DEC. 2008

 BIT mesra

This is my first post...So, first of all ,let me formally introduce myself and the reason behind writing blogs...So, here we go.I am VIVEK KUMAR from a small town named MOTIHARI in north BIHAR and presently a final year student in I.T. branch of B.I.T. MESRA,RANCHI.As the final year is in progress and end sems are going on(actually i am in my 2nd PL),I have got ample time to write some bakar on net called 'BLOGS' (as they name it)  and my freinds have given me no choice than writing blogs(as everyone of them has already plunged into this ocean).So, Once again I am going to start my struggle with pen and diary, but this  time there will be no torning out of pages .Before i start writing anything, a disclaimer has to be made(so that no one can sue me :) or no one gets offended).Whatever I write here is just a personal thought and should be taken lightly and should not be taken otherwise..Looking forward to a great cooperation from all of you who will care to read my blog.Your comments will be  highly appreciated..

Thanks 

Vivek